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Hi Reader

What if it wasn't mid- or quarter-life crisis, but an invitation for you to stop putting aside all that you wanted to do and be? What if it was an invitation for you to face the 'fears' that came up each time you tried to do the things you really wanted to do? Fears borne out of inner voices that tell you:

• You don't have enough information or resources to start...
• You don't have enough money, you are too old, you are not enough...
• That that's not for you, it will never happen, there are others who are more worthy...
• A voice that says, just be grateful for what you have...
• What if it doesn't work out and people laugh at or leave you?
• You are not qualified enough, go get another qualification to prove yourself worthy
• The people around you don't have time for this, stop changing so much
• Just get on with what you are doing now, and hope for the best. If you are meant for more, it will find you...

I hear you; I have had some of these voices in my head. It is so scary sometimes, because that voice feels like it's your own. In a twisted turn of events, your brain produces hormones and chemicals aligned to these fears, cementing them not only in your mind, but throughout your body - so moving toward what you really want, literally feels like an uphill battle.

It is twisted, because it is the way the brain is trying to protect you. It is always wanting to keep you 'safe'. What this means is that it wants you to do and be in the familiar because then it doesn't have to expend too much energy.

It already takes an average of 20% of your total body's energy and so the more it can preserve more of that energy, the better. These negative thoughts take a lot of and drain energy. So it is 'normal' for the brain to keep steering you to what takes up less energy.

Thus we push our true feelings down - not away. The more we push them down, the more they accumulate in the body. The more they accumulate in the body, the more this heads into a 'crisis'; followed by many instances of 'wake up calls' that nudge us to listen to our true inner voice.

On top of that, the voice of the person who has authority throughout most of your child and early adulthood, is the one whose voice we hear when we want to step out of the 'norm'. So what is your true inner voice then? We are not taught this in traditional schools. Can you see how so easy it is to spiral into CRISIS over the years?

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What does all this have to do with mid or quarter-life crisis

There comes a time when you get fed up playing the status-quo, living, leading and running your business in a safe way. Your nervous system can only take as much for so long. It feels like a 'crisis' because there has been inner conflict within yourself over the years. It has now just come to boiling point.

• You have always known who you are, but the environment you grew up in, whether family, community or nation was not conducive for your dreams
• You have always known what you wanted to be, but those who were supposed to guide, mentor, raise or lead you, did not have the capacity to hold that for you; and in fact like the brain, drew you away from 'danger'
• You have always known you were made for more, but it felt like an uphill battle just to get out there and get it done, because of family, community, national and global restrictions
• You have known your values, and you have always known your boundaries...but in environments, situations and partnerships that seemed to be well and good in the beginning, they were always ignored or devalued.

At some stage, all these conflicts come to head, especially if you have:

• Ticked all the boxes
• You have done the right thing
• Did well at school, married right, worked well, got promoted, running a successful business
• Your children and family are doing well, everyone around you admires what you have achieved so far
• They are in awe of what you have accomplished and built
• They strive to be where you are, they seek you out as a mentor, as a guide, and as a leader

But you yourself are disconnected from yourself

• Disconnected from your true values, your principles, your purpose, your boundaries
• You are mentoring, you are leading, you are guiding, but disconnected from your dreams
• When you rest your head on your pillow at night, you question when you will have the opportunity to live life on your own terms
• You question when the continual striving will end, the ticking boxes, and doing the 'right thing' even if it is against your values, principles and purpose
• Your system is exhausted, you want to stop, you want better, you seek deep inner connection, a deeper intrinsic reward

I hear you, I see you. This is how you can rectify this:

1. Revisit your true not motivating values,
2. Start the journey of figuring out your purpose, and make sure to put yourself in that equation too
3. Write down your principles, because they can support you in cementing your boundaries
4. Explore the Mutedzi 3D Protocol, that is:

• Define all these as clearly as possible, then take steps to
• Design your everyday Life, Leadership and business align with these values, principles and purpose. From there,
• Display the habits and behaviors that will help you stay on track. Here are a few complimentary resources to help you along.

I invite you to sample the Mutedzi 3D process, through this:

​Complimentary 7-Day Lead from Within journey​

There is nothing wrong or lacking with you.

That cry within you, that 'crisis' is a signal for you to start tending to your true needs, your dreams, your purpose. It is simply time for you to deliberately and consciously live your life, lead and run your business from the inside out.

This is one of the reasons I created the Conscious Leadership~Lead from Within Mastery program. One where you get to reclaim your personal power, cultivating a purposeful life, authentic leadership, and a business that reflects your truest self.

I spent years curating the content, using my decades of knowledge in Psychology, Anthropology, Neuroscience-based coaching, Conscious leadership, Conscious business ethics, Western science, African Ubuntuism and Eastern Presence.

I curated it for those wanting to step into the journey of self-mastery, where everything you do, say and think is aligned to your deepest values, highest potential, and most purposeful vision.

Medical doctors, students, teachers, directors, national presidential and other leaders, have gone through this program. So how do you know if this program is for you? It is for you if:

• ⚡️ Deep down, you sense that there is so much more to you than what you’re currently showing the world.
• ⚡️ You can’t quite put your finger on it, but you know there’s an untapped power waiting to be unleashed.
• ⚡️ You have a deep desire to connect with the core of who you truly are, to unlock your fullest potential, and to:
• ⚡️ Use that energy to manifest the bigger dreams you’ve held onto for years—if not decades.

I invite you to start the journey of true Self-Mastery:

1. ​Apply here to be considered for the program.
2. ​Read more about the program as you wait to hear from me,
3. And listen to this Audio testimonial from a Doctor who went through this program. Her 1st comment? "Best investment ever!!"

Okay my lovely. Let me know if you have any questions regarding any of the above. In the meantime, have a wonderful week ahead of you! With loving kindness, grace and gratitude, Coach B 🎩